A self-care menu sorts ideas by the time they take, so on a tired evening you choose from a short list instead of deciding from scratch. Every idea above is in one of these three lists; here is a sample from each.
Frequently asked questions
What should be on a self-care checklist?
A mix of body, mind, people and space: something that moves or rests your body, something that quiets your head, someone to talk to and one small tidy-up. Four quick ideas for every day, four for a free evening and two or three bigger ones is plenty. The menu above starts with an example you can change.
How do I make a self-care menu?
Sort ideas by how much time they take, not by how good they sound. When you have 5 minutes you pick from the first list, when you have an evening from the second. That way you never have to decide from scratch when you are already tired.
What are some free self-care ideas?
Step outside for daylight, drink a glass of water slowly, stretch, take six slow breaths, write three lines in a journal, call a friend, make your bed, take a walk or a library visit. Filter the ideas above by Free to see all of them.
How often should I do self-care?
A little every day and something bigger once a week works for most people. Daily 5-minute ideas are easier to keep than a monthly spa day, and the weekly checklist shows you which ones you actually use.
Can I print the self-care checklist?
Yes. Print checklist gives your menu on one Letter or A4 page with a box for each day of the week and empty lines for your own ideas. Print blank gives the same page with every line empty. Save as image makes a phone wallpaper of your menu.
Is self-care enough when I feel really low?
No. Self-care helps with everyday stress, but it is not treatment. If you have felt low, anxious or unable to cope for two weeks or more, talk to a doctor or a mental health professional. In the US you can call or text 988 at any time.
Where are my ticks saved?
Only in this browser on this device, including your menu, your own ideas and your ticks. Nothing is sent to our server and there is no sign-up.