Days 22–30: plan for stressful evenings, weekends, travel and settings that creep back, then decide what to keep after day 30.
- DAY 22
Write a hard-day plan
Write one if-then line for a stressful evening, such as: If I feel wiped out at your chosen moment, then I charge the phone in the other room and do the small version. Use it today if you need it.
Hard day: Write the if-then line and stop there.
Deciding in advance how you'll respond to a specific situation helps you follow through when that situation arrives.
- DAY 23
Plan a weekend version
Weekend days often don't have your usual cue. Choose a weekend cue, such as the first coffee or leaving the house, and plan one phone-free block of about 20 minutes for your next day off.
Hard day: Write down the weekend cue you will use.
Routines tend to break when the day's structure changes, so a separate weekend cue fills that gap.
- DAY 24
Prepare for travel
Decide where the phone will go during your window when you're away from home, such as a bag pocket or a desk across the room. Save one offline alternative, like a downloaded book or a paper puzzle. Keep your window at your chosen moment today.
Hard day: Pick the travel spot for your phone and write it down.
A new place removes your usual charger and table, so the plan has to fit wherever you go.
- DAY 25
Handle social pull
At your next meal or outing with others, keep the phone in a bag or pocket until the end and check it once when you leave. Keep your window at your chosen moment.
Hard day: Keep the phone in a pocket for the first 10 minutes of the next conversation.
A clear rule for time with others removes the constant small choice of whether to check.
- DAY 26
Plan the restart
Write what you'll do after a day when you scroll far more than planned: the next day, do your window at your chosen moment as usual, with no extra rules and no making up for it.
Hard day: Write one sentence: after a long scroll day, I go back to my usual window.
Returning at the next usual cue keeps one off day from ending the routine.
- DAY 27
Check for creep
Check notification settings, your home screen and your app limits. Turn off any alerts that came back after updates and move any app that has drifted back to your home screen. Keep your window at your chosen moment.
Hard day: Turn off one notification that has come back.
App updates and new installs quietly undo friction, so a regular check keeps it in place.
- DAY 28 · REVIEW
Fourth weekly review
Read your last week of check-ins, including weekends. Change exactly one thing that will make the routine easier to keep after the plan ends.
Hard day: Circle the day of the week that was hardest.
The last review should focus on the change most likely to help after the daily plan ends.
- DAY 29
Choose what stays
List every change you made: notification cleanup, charging spot, grayscale, logouts, limits, zones. Mark each one keep, adjust or drop, based on your check-ins. Keep your window at your chosen moment.
Hard day: Name the single change that helped most.
Keeping only the changes that actually helped makes the routine lighter and easier to maintain.
- DAY 30
Plan the next month
Write your routine for the next 30 days in two lines: when and where the phone goes at your chosen moment, and which friction settings stay. Put a reminder in your calendar to review it in four weeks.
Hard day: Write one line: every day, at your chosen moment, my phone goes to the charger.
Writing the routine down with a review date keeps it going after the daily plan ends.